drift king
Master Don Juan
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last week i attempted to pick up a girl at my college, i thought i did ok but she was like 'no i dont want to i only want to go out with my friends that's it'
i saw her for the 1st time since then she said hi to me, we were studying in same cafe, i then went up to her asking what perfume she was wearing that day cos she smelt nice.. it wasn't her i was smelling lol.. it was someone else.. but cos i did it in such a direct manner it backfired..
i shoulda quit then, but i went into convo with her while she was sitting down later on for about 20mins tryna run game.. then she went for a cigarette so it ended. i then packed my stuff and left and as i was leaving i tried 1 last time to see if i could get her out.. she was like 'no i dont want to be impolite but i dont want.. only with my friends im not looking for a bf or any guy.. u are making me feel uncomfortable cos you're so..' (she gestures in a forward forward motion)
i knew i f'd up then.. i was like 'cool well if u change your mind then let me know tho im not asking again cos i only ask twice cos i have some pride' she doesn't speak english properly so i ended up having to say things again and again. she's like 'dont be angry ok..' i was thinking i wasn''t angry or annoyed but it must have shone through.
anyway.. i cant go back to that cafe anymore to pick up other girls cos shes always there.. how should i act next time i see her?
shes done me a favor, shes not into me so im wasting my time. but i dont want to act bitter if i see her next time.. is the best way to deal with this is to put on a smile say hi but dont stop for any chit chat?
i heard u have to show to her that she's missing out on something.. a bitter rejected afc i guess would avoid her and be angry and blank her.. me.. its her loss, that should be my mentality? she should have such little affect on me that its easy for me to walk around with a swagger and say hi.
i saw her for the 1st time since then she said hi to me, we were studying in same cafe, i then went up to her asking what perfume she was wearing that day cos she smelt nice.. it wasn't her i was smelling lol.. it was someone else.. but cos i did it in such a direct manner it backfired..
i shoulda quit then, but i went into convo with her while she was sitting down later on for about 20mins tryna run game.. then she went for a cigarette so it ended. i then packed my stuff and left and as i was leaving i tried 1 last time to see if i could get her out.. she was like 'no i dont want to be impolite but i dont want.. only with my friends im not looking for a bf or any guy.. u are making me feel uncomfortable cos you're so..' (she gestures in a forward forward motion)
i knew i f'd up then.. i was like 'cool well if u change your mind then let me know tho im not asking again cos i only ask twice cos i have some pride' she doesn't speak english properly so i ended up having to say things again and again. she's like 'dont be angry ok..' i was thinking i wasn''t angry or annoyed but it must have shone through.
anyway.. i cant go back to that cafe anymore to pick up other girls cos shes always there.. how should i act next time i see her?
shes done me a favor, shes not into me so im wasting my time. but i dont want to act bitter if i see her next time.. is the best way to deal with this is to put on a smile say hi but dont stop for any chit chat?
i heard u have to show to her that she's missing out on something.. a bitter rejected afc i guess would avoid her and be angry and blank her.. me.. its her loss, that should be my mentality? she should have such little affect on me that its easy for me to walk around with a swagger and say hi.