Attempt to get out of friend zone

[BrandonR28]

So around January I wanted to tell my friend that I wanted to be more than friends with her and I got to take her out once but didn't make a move. The next week she got a boyfriend so I stopped. Like a month ago from today she broke up with him. We have the same gym class in college and 1 weeks ago I decided to offer her a ride home from school. The next day she texted me and we started flirting. We started hanging out after school. On wed we went to Starbucks and we had a long conversation until I had to take her home and when we got to the front of her house she came in for a hug and I went for the kiss. She pulled back and left. The next day in gym class she was avoiding me and I don't think she's interested. Should I keep trying or just move on?
We are both 19 and have been friends for three years

 

[BrownBear]

Man up and keep on trying my friend :box: :box: :box:

 

[BrandonR28]

I would keep trying but so far she has avoided me and I don't want to text her because I might come off as needy or annoying

 

[DragonBlood]

Friends for three years and your making a move NOW?


The only reason you went for this is because you realised this girl isnt going to be on the market forever waiting for you to man up. First lesson learnt. Man up and move quicker in the future.


There is a good chance she will get back with her boyfriend no matter what you do. Although chasing might speed this up. She is actively avoiding you. I think you should look elsewhere for a girlfriend to switch the script around.

 

[BrownBear]

I would keep trying but so far she has avoided me and I don't want to text her because I might come off as needy or annoying

Man up and text her :box: :box: :box:

 

[PlayHer Man]

Women use sex to get relationships. If she can get a relationship out of a man without having to sleep with him.. why should she bother sleeping with him?

This is what men don't get. Never be "friends" with girls you want to sleep with. If you find a girl attractive, you need to start trying to bed her from day one. Don't be her "friend" first. You will be viewed as a cowardly beta male faggot.

Of course, no woman will ever tell you this. They'll just say: "I like you as a friend". That's code for: "You don't make my vagina tingle because you are too passive and cowardly."

Women Admit it --> http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ejSq-_NzAps

 

[BrandonR28]

I didn't have much interest in her until a couple months ago lol. But yeah, you're probably right about her getting back with her boyfriend. Lesson learned

 

[BrandonR28]

I get what you're saying. I basically put myself in the "friends zone." Won't be making that mistake again

 

[DragonBlood]

I didn't have much interest in her until a couple months ago lol.

Scarcity is a powerful thing. You value what you cant have. Use it to your advantage.

 

[BrandonR28]

I'm sorry, i don't know what you're trying to say with this scarcity thing?
Can you explain?

 

[DragonBlood]

Sure,

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Scarcity


Basically you had access to this girl whenever you wanted so you didnt look at her in 'that way'. All of a sudden shes off the market and your interest rises to get her back.

Likewise, your just as available as ever and have no options so there is no advantage to her being in a relationship. As PlayHer Man has also said, dont be friends with girls you want to sleep with. Im not convinced your that attracted to her anyway. Limited time offer! Buy Now!

 

[Sonny Knight]

Sure,

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Scarcity


Basically you had access to this girl whenever you wanted so you didnt look at her in 'that way'. All of a sudden shes off the market and your interest rises to get her back.

Likewise, your just as available as ever and have no options so there is no advantage to her being in a relationship. As PlayHer Man has also said, dont be friends with girls you want to sleep with. Im not convinced your that attracted to her anyway. Limited time offer! Buy Now!

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