"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Attempt to get out of friend zone

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So around January I wanted to tell my friend that I wanted to be more than friends with her and I got to take her out once but didn't make a move. The next week she got a boyfriend so I stopped. Like a month ago from today she broke up with him. We have the same gym class in college and 1 weeks ago I decided to offer her a ride home from school. The next day she texted me and we started flirting. We started hanging out after school. On wed we went to Starbucks and we had a long conversation until I had to take her home and when we got to the front of her house she came in for a hug and I went for the kiss. She pulled back and left. The next day in gym class she was avoiding me and I don't think she's interested. Should I keep trying or just move on?
We are both 19 and have been friends for three years
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I would keep trying but so far she has avoided me and I don't want to text her because I might come off as needy or annoying
 
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Friends for three years and your making a move NOW?


The only reason you went for this is because you realised this girl isnt going to be on the market forever waiting for you to man up. First lesson learnt. Man up and move quicker in the future.


There is a good chance she will get back with her boyfriend no matter what you do. Although chasing might speed this up. She is actively avoiding you. I think you should look elsewhere for a girlfriend to switch the script around.
 
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BrandonR28 said:
I would keep trying but so far she has avoided me and I don't want to text her because I might come off as needy or annoying
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Man up and text her :box: :box: :box:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Women use sex to get relationships. If she can get a relationship out of a man without having to sleep with him.. why should she bother sleeping with him?

This is what men don't get. Never be "friends" with girls you want to sleep with. If you find a girl attractive, you need to start trying to bed her from day one. Don't be her "friend" first. You will be viewed as a cowardly beta male faggot.

Of course, no woman will ever tell you this. They'll just say: "I like you as a friend". That's code for: "You don't make my vagina tingle because you are too passive and cowardly."

Women Admit it --> http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ejSq-_NzAps
 
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I didn't have much interest in her until a couple months ago lol. But yeah, you're probably right about her getting back with her boyfriend. Lesson learned
 
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I get what you're saying. I basically put myself in the "friends zone." Won't be making that mistake again
 
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BrandonR28 said:
I didn't have much interest in her until a couple months ago lol.
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Scarcity is a powerful thing. You value what you cant have. Use it to your advantage.
 
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I'm sorry, i don't know what you're trying to say with this scarcity thing?
Can you explain?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Sure,

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Scarcity


Basically you had access to this girl whenever you wanted so you didnt look at her in 'that way'. All of a sudden shes off the market and your interest rises to get her back.

Likewise, your just as available as ever and have no options so there is no advantage to her being in a relationship. As PlayHer Man has also said, dont be friends with girls you want to sleep with. Im not convinced your that attracted to her anyway. Limited time offer! Buy Now!
 
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Sure,

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Scarcity


Basically you had access to this girl whenever you wanted so you didnt look at her in 'that way'. All of a sudden shes off the market and your interest rises to get her back.

Likewise, your just as available as ever and have no options so there is no advantage to her being in a relationship. As PlayHer Man has also said, dont be friends with girls you want to sleep with. Im not convinced your that attracted to her anyway. Limited time offer! Buy Now!
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preach my brother can i get a amen hallelujah

It's not what he wanted to hear but it's the truth.
 
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