"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Attached but Need to Dump Her

werdmaster

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Well its been a while since my last post, but I finally hooked up for the first time. I also lost my virginity in the same week!
I got into a relationship with this girl. But, I started to realize that she had some problems, and that I didnt want to get into her life. I still like like her, but I had a really intense dream. After analyzing it, I know she has to go. So I have a great plan to break up with her.

Heres the problem:
I'm kind of attached to her, being that shes my first girlfriend and I had sex for the first time with her.

I've been really beating myself up over this, and i'm so confused.

Can any of u guys give me some advice?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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teedo

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u need to tell urself that she doenst mean anything to you and she was no prize. talk to some other girls. then call her and break up wit her quickly. dont get ur buddy to call her or somethin gay anyhow
 

Porky

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Get your best friend to send her an e-mail for you.
 

Jester

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thats weak dude

you bang her and now suddenly you realise you dont want to be with her

weak

...break up with her, say youre a loser and youre sorry, but dont stay with her you pathetic piece of ****

gj dipsh1t you made a girl who already has troubles evne more ****ed up
 

Jimbo2k

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Originally posted by Jester
thats weak dude

you bang her and now suddenly you realise you dont want to be with her

weak

...break up with her, say youre a loser and youre sorry, but dont stay with her you pathetic piece of ****

gj dipsh1t you made a girl who already has troubles evne more ****ed up
Its not his fault! His dream told him to do it! :eek:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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JSH

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Don't listen to them, dump her but if shes screwed up be there to suport her as a friend, say somehting cliched like you wanna b friends and help her.
 

werdmaster

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Thanks JSH.

I did wat u said. And it worked good so far.
I just hope I didn't hurt her.
 
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