"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Attached but Need to Dump Her

werdmaster

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Well its been a while since my last post, but I finally hooked up for the first time. I also lost my virginity in the same week!
I got into a relationship with this girl. But, I started to realize that she had some problems, and that I didnt want to get into her life. I still like like her, but I had a really intense dream. After analyzing it, I know she has to go. So I have a great plan to break up with her.

Heres the problem:
I'm kind of attached to her, being that shes my first girlfriend and I had sex for the first time with her.

I've been really beating myself up over this, and i'm so confused.

Can any of u guys give me some advice?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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teedo

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u need to tell urself that she doenst mean anything to you and she was no prize. talk to some other girls. then call her and break up wit her quickly. dont get ur buddy to call her or somethin gay anyhow
 

Porky

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Get your best friend to send her an e-mail for you.
 

Jester

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thats weak dude

you bang her and now suddenly you realise you dont want to be with her

weak

...break up with her, say youre a loser and youre sorry, but dont stay with her you pathetic piece of ****

gj dipsh1t you made a girl who already has troubles evne more ****ed up
 

Jimbo2k

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Originally posted by Jester
thats weak dude

you bang her and now suddenly you realise you dont want to be with her

weak

...break up with her, say youre a loser and youre sorry, but dont stay with her you pathetic piece of ****

gj dipsh1t you made a girl who already has troubles evne more ****ed up
Its not his fault! His dream told him to do it! :eek:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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JSH

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Don't listen to them, dump her but if shes screwed up be there to suport her as a friend, say somehting cliched like you wanna b friends and help her.
 

werdmaster

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Thanks JSH.

I did wat u said. And it worked good so far.
I just hope I didn't hurt her.
 
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