I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I get plenty of protein each day, although there are some days where I seriously lose my appetite and feel like puking anythink I eat. I'll pm you my diet if you're interested.EvilAgenda said:Congrats, Atom.
Konada, do you supplement creatine and eat/drink plenty of protein?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Luck my ass. You worked for it. Congratulations!Credos said:I aced that exam on hydrodynamics today! Think this might be the best exam I ever had!(I was lucky)
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
That's good Konada. What about Creatine? It helps you gain muscle weight much quicker, you can buy it at Walmart and Walgreens, usually in the pharmacy section.Konada said:I get plenty of protein each day, although there are some days where I seriously lose my appetite and feel like puking anythink I eat. I'll pm you my diet if you're interested.
Omg, 1200 pushups.Perry said:Do 1,200 pushups
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
They don't have Walmart/Walgreens where I'm living. Though I have not taken creatine yet, currently on GNC mass gainer shake post WO and before bed. Will check out the creatine.EvilAgenda said:That's good Konada. What about Creatine? It helps you gain muscle weight much quicker, you can buy it at Walmart and Walgreens.
Lol have you evacuated? I heard it's gonns hit the hardest around evening...Atom Smasher said:Great work, guys. Keep it up. Those little steps acrrue in to huge changes.
My update:
Work out 3X - Check
Lose 2 lbs. - Check
Organize Kindle - Check
I'll set my next week's goals if I survive the hurricane.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.