Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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At the mall

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I recently got my drivers license and i went up to the mall today. I was actually looking for an application to some select stores. i had no intention of even approaching any girls or meeting any for that matter. anyway, i went into Hollister, a store i've never been in before, simply because too many white people rock that clothing, lol. they have alright clothing.

to my surprise, i seen a girl that looked familiar working there. she was in one of my classes from last year. she looked a lot better now(about an HB8) compared to last year. it was weird. she's a freshman in college now, and i had something to work with. i mustered up the courage to say hi, and i asked her if she remembered me. she did, and we started talking. eventually i asked her about some clothes and how they fit on me, and she even bought me a sleeved polo for a discount. after she got off work, i walked with her around a bit, talking about various subjects, but unfortunately i didn't get her number. she even had her cell phone out, fiddling with it!!!!!! i felt so much regret afterwards. she said, "i'll see ya later" and there went my chance to cop the number....

regrets, regrets, regrets.....i hate it, but hopefully i'll come back stronger and more prepared next time. i think i did pretty well, being under the circumstances i was in. i had no intention of even meeting any chicks. now that i have my license i'll be going out and experiencing a lot more.

i'll probably stop by there the next time i go shopping, and i'll definately get her number. i know it'll work. i tried some kino, too. i've always been too much of a coward to try it too, lol....this is something i wouldn't ordinarily do. but i did it and it feels good. it's just another small step, but i'm steadily progressing. i hope i can be like this more often.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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the win-win situation about this is that this girl has a sister that is in my grade. last year i met her, we were aquaintences, but i never befriended her.

i learned that meeting a girl doesn't mean you've befriended them.

now when i see her sister around school, i have something to work with, and u better believe i'll step up to the occassion.
 
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