"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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at healthy weight but still flabby...

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Hey, about a year ago, i decided to make changes to my body after reading the "Zone Perfect" eating plan book.

I understood more about how carbs affect your body so I decided to cut drinking regular pop, eating candy, eating fast food, and balancing out my meals.

I lost about 55 lbs.

I whent from 215 to 155.

I've maintained that weight since then but i'm still flabby.

I'm about 5' 9", which means i'm at a healthy weight.

What would any of you guys suggest for getting more lean? I can see my abs sticking through but there is still flab there (as well as my chest and the rest of my body).

I've noticed my arms are WAY lean though. The veins stick out all the time now (something ive never experienced in my life before).

My guess is that i need to try a lot of cardio since i already have a good amount of muscle mass. I'm surprizingly stronger and have a bigger muscle structure than most of people my height and age.

thanks!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ok, thanks a lot, i'll keep that in mind. Yea, i just ran for about an hour and a half. I got motivated :D .

Anyways, yea, i'll definitely stay strict on what i eat, and i'm gonna have a running routine from now on. My private road is all hilly so i get a lot of incline.

Thanks again!
 

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Hit the weights too and fill your skin out a bit. It's probably slightly stretchy from all the weight loss, and you're going to need to pack on a little bit of muscle to make your body look nice and solid.

Goodluck with that last bit of belly man :)
 
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Hmm, thats a thought,


I was also wondering, because of my weight, do you think I could have extra skin, contributing to the flabbier look as well ?
 

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It's a high possibility. I just think adding a bit of muscle to your structure makes you feel, look, and radiate health. It's a real good feeling to look at yourself and think you look excellent. Above average. Different.

It's not for everyone though. Have a think about how you see yourself in a perfect world. Hell, you lost that many lbs, you've already shown you have the dedication to make yourself look better. I guess you could make this a perfect basis for becoming everything you wanted to be. In body and mind.

:)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Yea, I feel hella sore (its the day after that little run hehe). I'm gonna work on my muscles (mainly my upper body and abdomine) and get them stronger as well as doing more cardio workout, something i need to do in general.
 
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well i'm pretty muscular in the legs, i mostly wanna trim them a bit, i'll still work them out, for mantinince, i just want bigger arms and a stronger stomach
 

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Hmm, what I've heard around here is that you can't really isolate what you train...or something like that. But by stronger stomach do you mean...ABS? or er....I dunno..

I think you mean rock hard abs. In that case, do you probably want them to show and such...cuz you're refering to your flab. chill man. I have some flab too. Top ones a re showing..bottom part is flab. So just watch your diet, do a lot of cardio (not over like 45 min cuz then it starts burning muscle). At least that's what I've gathered from the DJs on this site. Er...might wanna post your diet.
 
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Well, i follow a basic "Zone perfect" diet plan. (if any of you know what that is). I maintain a 40-30-30 ratio for my carbs, fat and protein.

In the morning i usually have a protein shake and a low glycemic carb like bran cereal or something.

For lunch, i usually stick to something balanced, either a shake with a balance of sugar and what not (i follow the recepies in my booK).

For dinner, well, usually what my mom cooks hehe. She's on it too though, so everything is relatively balanced.

Like i said, i've stopped completely eating candy/cookies/cake whatever, pop, chips, all that. Its totally eliminated from my diet.

I try to keep fast food down to like once a week (some times you gotta live man).
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Run for 20 minutes when u first get up without eating anything. Your body will dip straight into your fat content to create energy for your body.

This will do more for you than 1 hour of your regular cardio!
 
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