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At a bar

Atticusbrd

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Whats up fellas this is my first post here been on here a few times but never got around to take the time and read alot that goes on here

Wanted to get a few tips on women at bars

So last night i went to a bar with a few of my buddies, Went there for the purpose of just gettig a few drinks and well just look at women

While on my second beer i was outside with a friend of mind just scoping out the scene women ect and randomly made Eye contact with a real cutie that i say would be my type ..Real cutie not out of my league

Look away and then look back and we make contact about 3 times
so i say to myself hmmm im ganna talk

so she comes real close to me and i asked her for a cigg. she gives me a hit of her cigg and we randonly start talking about random **** she leaves after a few minutes dissapears for a while

Later on we meet up again and same thing goes on eye contact after eye contact

I go up to talk to her again she talks but had "the ***** shield" on her

Dont know what i did wrong but it was the first time trying to meet and pick up at a bar (since im not much of a bar person it was the first time)

any tips?
 

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I honestly can't think what you did wrong here, but if she is putting up her ***** shields, the best thing to do is walk away and not waste your time Atticusbrd, find a girl that you get a good connection with and get her number, keep on doing what you are doing, approaches are hard, but the more you do it, the better you will be :D
 

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All the ***** shield is really for is to weed out the droves of afc's hitting on her every night. Women get bored with all the "average guys" who waste their time. So show her that you're different. Act like a man and treat her like she's your equal or like the chubby girl with acne and braces that liked you in high school and not some goddess and you'll go far in this world.
 

Atticusbrd

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ill be on the look out again and keep these tips in mind

thanks fellas

ill probably hit up the bar again this week
 
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