“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Astute Observational Powers

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Jules Verne

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You can start with mystery novels. Sherlock Holmes and Hercule Poirot shaped my childhood.

Furthermore, you can learn more about body language, connecting people through interaction, and cultural differences.

Every person you see from there is an opportunity to practice your skill.
 

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Do you mean with people, or just everything in general?

For general, I've heard (but haven't tried yet) that an effective exercise is to start forcing yourself to make useful new observations every day. It doesn't have to be anything profound, just be more observant all the time. For example, next time you're walking a familiar path, notice where the big crack in the sidewalk is, notice how many steps are on the stairs in your house, notice the colour of your neighbours door, etc. Over time this should get you into the habit of noticing a lot.

For people, unfortunately I find my ability to predict behaviour greatly increased when I started being more cynical. A LOT of behaviour is easily explained if you think of people acting only in their own selfish interests.
 

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SmoothTalker said:
A LOT of behaviour is easily explained if you think of people acting only in their own selfish interests.
This is quite true. People often do not think about the welfare and feelings of others before taking action.

Our every action affects not only our future but the future of others.

Detective novels, stories, Detective and CSI like TV shows can definitely help.

One female poker player (Anne Duke?) also uses FBI profiling techniques.

If you are interested in catching liars there is a TV show about that. I forget the name.
 

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From observing.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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