Some ramblings about Scorpios from my experiences/studies.... Scorpio men and women are said to be very sexual - but that doesn't mean that they love you. Often the one they hold most dear will be the last one they will make a move on because they are aware from past experiences how difficult it is to find someone who can handle how intense they really are (and I don't mean just sexually - although that too). Usually, the more they like you, the more they act disinterested in you until they decide if you are truly trustworthy.
Think of Finding Nemo quote:
Dory: You mean... you don't like me?
Marlin: No, of course I like you, It's
because like you I don't want to be around you. It's a complicated emotion.
They spend a great deal of time studying and testing their "prey". They never forget a kindness - or a slight. And you cannot set out to seduce or "catch" a Scorpio - they seduce you - you may think you won that Scorpio, but he/she noticed you before you finished the breath you just took, even though he/she may appear`to ignore you the next 7 times you are around eachother - they are just studying you. The Scorpio man will "body block" you from other men seeing you, if you are out with him (I just had a picnic with one who made me move where I was on our blanket). I didn't know why he was so particular about exactly where he was wanting me until I realized that some golfers had come into the area. He completely shielded me from them LOL It was great and I felt wonderfully protected. I acan be independent any old time, but to be shielded by a man, nice...) If that kind of possessiveness offends your independence (Scorpio women will have their own looks, voices and signals to keep others away from you when they like you) find another sign. LOL
And for those of you who don't believe in astrology - I'd rather argue the merits of Santa's existence! I find him easier to believe in than God.
I have never known a Scorpio male to pay me a false or lame compliment, rarely if ever do they spend time with someone they don't genuinely like, and they will tell you the truth - so be careful if you ask them their opinion, be prepared for an answer you might not like - but it will be Scorpio's truth, so at least you will have that and that is no small thing.
Just because they are so naturally fabulous as lovers/in bed, people think they are shallow - they aren't. They are very intense, have a heightened sense of justice, like their space, and are very secretive about strange things - like they don't want you to know what they had for lunch, but if you are close to them and have earned their trust, they will share their darkest moments and their highest achievements with you and it is bliss. But they still won't tell you what they had for lunch.
Very private people, but they are incredibly magnetic. Blab a secret of theirs and you're outta' there - no second chances - I've seen them cut people loose they've known for years.
I find them to be the most complex of all the signs. I find their biggest challenge is jealousy, which will often destroy their relationships. (Although many people think it is their need for control - I actually don't mind that because they are
good at being in control - so why fault them for it?).
So, if you are in love with a Scorpio and want to totally screw it up - then try to make Scorpio jealous. Me, I'll just take cover behind a lead door while
you deal with it LOL Want to keep him/her? Feel good about giving Scorpio the gift of knowing you are one person they don't ever have to worry about.
Scorpio, more than any other sign, needs someone who can go the distance - and that is across the board. Sexually, emotionally, spiritually, intellectually. They don't tolerate mediocrity. They want to know every detail - love a mystery, so just because they get to be secretive - don't think you'll get to be!
When a Scorpio is done with you - they are done, but if they love you - it takes a lot to have them let you go. They often have old boyfriend or girlfriends around - but you don't have to worry about them - because if Scorpio had wanted them that way - they'd
be with them.
Scorpios that have not matured (in an astrological/life journey sense) are more interested in the easy lay, often mistake sex for love, and will sometimes stray sexually as their intimacy with the one they love increases, because intimacy scares them - even though this is what they crave the most. If you wait for them to ask for the commitment in the relationship, it will save you a lot of heartache - and him/her a lot of guilt and destruction. When they do commit, they will stay loyal as long as their emotional needs are being met.
They don't like people who are users, whiney, or weak. Genuine need is met with compassion - albeit a very quiet, practical solution/act. Although emotional - they don't tolerate cheap drama well.
They love variety, so if you don't like being knocked over the head and dragged into their cave periodically, find another mate. Often you won't make it past the livingroom floor to the soft bedroom mattress, so if you are high maintenance or easily offended by raw passion, sex with all the lights ON full force (he'd use a magnifying glass if you let him LOL) - Scorpio is not for you. If Scorpio takes the time/effort to romance you - it is only for you. He can really give a s*** about bringing you flowers - but if he knows you love them, it is only for you that he will give you that gift. But he will, because he can be a Prince - but not indiscriminately.
