“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Assuming I'm testing quite a few girls to find the right one for LTR... how to?

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Let's say I'm currently looking for a LTR and dating multiple girls to find the right one. I would probably do some action dates with all the girls, and see who I have the most fun with and rule out the most boring ones. However, assuming I have chosen the girl in whom I'm more interested in after 2-3 action dates with all of them, how should I proceed? Keep doing more action dates until her interest in me is off the chart, then go for a romantic date and make a move? or could I try to pull a move while on an action date (assuming I get really good vibe)?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Go on "action dates" with all of them, to see who is the most fun. Test drive (sleep with) all of them. You decide which one is the most fun for you. Once you have done the above, no need to have a romantic dinner type of date, unless you want to.
 
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ok but two main problems with that:

1) Assuming I don't have enough game to get to sleep with a girl without dating her first, how should I approach it then?

2) Assuming eventually I do get enough game, once I have chosen the right girl for a LTR, how do I... let her know? simply ask her out?
 
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You don't need to "date" her first. I mean, you don't need to take her to dinners or that type of stuff. Get together for fun "action dates", if they are confortable with you, they will agree to hang out with you alone, and "chill". There you can make your moves, towards physical escalation.

Once you get enough game, your standards will be higher, and you will be able to be even more selective. So use your next few months to just date, keep an open mind, then when you are more skilled, you will be able to make a much better choice. So basically, you got no business hunting girls down for relationships at this point. Instead take the time to get confortable, learn skills, and meet people.

Girls are usually the ones who want to know the status of your relationship. That is why you must constantly escalate and make your intentions clear, without having to talk about it. Express your interest with actions. She will then ask you where you two stand.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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