"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Assuming I'm testing quite a few girls to find the right one for LTR... how to?

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Let's say I'm currently looking for a LTR and dating multiple girls to find the right one. I would probably do some action dates with all the girls, and see who I have the most fun with and rule out the most boring ones. However, assuming I have chosen the girl in whom I'm more interested in after 2-3 action dates with all of them, how should I proceed? Keep doing more action dates until her interest in me is off the chart, then go for a romantic date and make a move? or could I try to pull a move while on an action date (assuming I get really good vibe)?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Go on "action dates" with all of them, to see who is the most fun. Test drive (sleep with) all of them. You decide which one is the most fun for you. Once you have done the above, no need to have a romantic dinner type of date, unless you want to.
 
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ok but two main problems with that:

1) Assuming I don't have enough game to get to sleep with a girl without dating her first, how should I approach it then?

2) Assuming eventually I do get enough game, once I have chosen the right girl for a LTR, how do I... let her know? simply ask her out?
 
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You don't need to "date" her first. I mean, you don't need to take her to dinners or that type of stuff. Get together for fun "action dates", if they are confortable with you, they will agree to hang out with you alone, and "chill". There you can make your moves, towards physical escalation.

Once you get enough game, your standards will be higher, and you will be able to be even more selective. So use your next few months to just date, keep an open mind, then when you are more skilled, you will be able to make a much better choice. So basically, you got no business hunting girls down for relationships at this point. Instead take the time to get confortable, learn skills, and meet people.

Girls are usually the ones who want to know the status of your relationship. That is why you must constantly escalate and make your intentions clear, without having to talk about it. Express your interest with actions. She will then ask you where you two stand.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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