When I meet an attractive girl for some reason I assume that she likes me in some way or she is attracted to me. I think this has happened because I know that I can make her feel attracted to me. I feel this gives you more confidence when you assume the girl likes you and makes them drawn to you more. I also suffer alot less from oneitis or whatever it is called.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
assume the girl likes you
- Thread starter wildchild
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
u been here three years and ddin't know this was in the bible?
I havnt read all of the bible im not a cyber geek i do have a social life as you can see ive not had that many posts for being here 3 years i prefer going out and learning myself rather than spending hours on forums. Check the amount i have posted compared to most people - maybe its because i have my game sorted more than some and dont have to post as much.
TheCarGuyA4
Don Juan
Hey man there is no need to say that you have a life and you don't depend on this board too much. Everyone comes here to either give adivce or get advice. No need for sheap shots, we are all here to hel each other
man i was just saying that because that dude had a dig at me. I know we are here to help each other but if you look at my other posts i have never had a swipe at anyone unless they have done to me and hes making out im a ****ing idiot. Btw ive been drinking sorry guys if i have offended - these boards have helped me out so much in loadsa ways and i know i relied on some of the stuff and still do, this board as u have seen in my old posts have helped me with so much in my life but im just pissed off with people dissing other people on the board and im sorry if i have just done that ... i take it back.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
DeathDealer
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Blah blah blah, look at me I'm confident.Originally posted by wildchild
I havnt read all of the bible im not a cyber geek i do have a social life as you can see ive not had that many posts for being here 3 years i prefer going out and learning myself rather than spending hours on forums. Check the amount i have posted compared to most people - maybe its because i have my game sorted more than some and dont have to post as much.