When I meet an attractive girl for some reason I assume that she likes me in some way or she is attracted to me. I think this has happened because I know that I can make her feel attracted to me. I feel this gives you more confidence when you assume the girl likes you and makes them drawn to you more. I also suffer alot less from oneitis or whatever it is called.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
assume the girl likes you
- Thread starter wildchild
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
u been here three years and ddin't know this was in the bible?
I havnt read all of the bible im not a cyber geek i do have a social life as you can see ive not had that many posts for being here 3 years i prefer going out and learning myself rather than spending hours on forums. Check the amount i have posted compared to most people - maybe its because i have my game sorted more than some and dont have to post as much.
TheCarGuyA4
Don Juan
Hey man there is no need to say that you have a life and you don't depend on this board too much. Everyone comes here to either give adivce or get advice. No need for sheap shots, we are all here to hel each other
man i was just saying that because that dude had a dig at me. I know we are here to help each other but if you look at my other posts i have never had a swipe at anyone unless they have done to me and hes making out im a ****ing idiot. Btw ive been drinking sorry guys if i have offended - these boards have helped me out so much in loadsa ways and i know i relied on some of the stuff and still do, this board as u have seen in my old posts have helped me with so much in my life but im just pissed off with people dissing other people on the board and im sorry if i have just done that ... i take it back.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
DeathDealer
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Blah blah blah, look at me I'm confident.Originally posted by wildchild
I havnt read all of the bible im not a cyber geek i do have a social life as you can see ive not had that many posts for being here 3 years i prefer going out and learning myself rather than spending hours on forums. Check the amount i have posted compared to most people - maybe its because i have my game sorted more than some and dont have to post as much.