Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Solomon

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jurry said:
You joined this site when you were 14?
I lul'd at this hard....

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Decent list OP but don't let it jade you, what are you gonna do start dating guys?

the onus for betterment is always on you, if you don't like the world around you, you gotta change.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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conversation is currently a massive problem and is only going to get worse you arent the only one effected by this people literally no longer know how to converse with each other in reality

the thing about the date being such a big deal is also true

the "date" has somehow now become more pressurised than actually having intercourse with a woman

i am also finding "freinds" to be an absolutley massive problem

a vast majority of women now seem to be extremley bitter for one reason or another and the thought of theyre girlfreind finiding happiness with a actual genuine guy is beyond theyre comprehension and they will do absolutley anthing to sabotage your relationship with her

im in the process of setting a really hot chick up for a date next week it seems to be going well and if i played it any cooler i would freeze ,

but fvck me the amount of work & planning it has taken "behind the scenes" has been absolutley exshausting

and im still not a 100% she wont flake

sometimes i question myself if its all really worth it
 

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_sideways_ said:
I saw that too
I was 15 when I joined the site. I was all bent out of shape about a girl and needed advice. 2005 feels like a long time ago.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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VladPatton said:
Don't even get me started on conversational skills with these vapid, social media addicts!
That awkward moment on a date when you realize she is in fact boring as f*ck because she is socially inept from social media and her sense of entitlement.

Those feels.
 

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Yewki said:
That awkward moment on a date when you realize she is in fact boring as f*ck because she is socially inept from social media and her sense of entitlement.

At that point I see her less as a female I can have some sort of connection with an more of a container I can shoot my load in.
 
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