"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Solomon

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jurry said:
You joined this site when you were 14?
I lul'd at this hard....

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Decent list OP but don't let it jade you, what are you gonna do start dating guys?

the onus for betterment is always on you, if you don't like the world around you, you gotta change.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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conversation is currently a massive problem and is only going to get worse you arent the only one effected by this people literally no longer know how to converse with each other in reality

the thing about the date being such a big deal is also true

the "date" has somehow now become more pressurised than actually having intercourse with a woman

i am also finding "freinds" to be an absolutley massive problem

a vast majority of women now seem to be extremley bitter for one reason or another and the thought of theyre girlfreind finiding happiness with a actual genuine guy is beyond theyre comprehension and they will do absolutley anthing to sabotage your relationship with her

im in the process of setting a really hot chick up for a date next week it seems to be going well and if i played it any cooler i would freeze ,

but fvck me the amount of work & planning it has taken "behind the scenes" has been absolutley exshausting

and im still not a 100% she wont flake

sometimes i question myself if its all really worth it
 

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_sideways_ said:
I saw that too
I was 15 when I joined the site. I was all bent out of shape about a girl and needed advice. 2005 feels like a long time ago.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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VladPatton said:
Don't even get me started on conversational skills with these vapid, social media addicts!
That awkward moment on a date when you realize she is in fact boring as f*ck because she is socially inept from social media and her sense of entitlement.

Those feels.
 

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Yewki said:
That awkward moment on a date when you realize she is in fact boring as f*ck because she is socially inept from social media and her sense of entitlement.

At that point I see her less as a female I can have some sort of connection with an more of a container I can shoot my load in.
 
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