Assessment: Yay or Nay?

[seanjohn]

Quick question from a newbie, all response greatly appreciated.

I need to know for certain whether this girl is interested. Having read some of the DJ bible and WMS, I've got a good idea, but just needed some more advice/assessment.

This girl I'm interested in, lives very close to me, so don't want to go for it unless I'm relatively certain she's interested.

- We were hanging out with a group of people. After most ppl left, just me and her, I lost a bet and she asked me to give her a massage.

- I slid my hands under the back of her shirt she didn't mind... also other kino that night. She then gave me a massage (her request).

Just random behavior or tell-tale signs she's really interested?

 

[Desdinova]

She then gave me a massage (her request).

Just random behavior or tell-tale signs she's really interested?

If she's not telling you to get the fvck away from her, then she COULD be interested. Someone on here once said to assume that ALL women are interested in you. Should've grabbed her number anyway and tried to set up a date with her. You'll never know if you don't go for it.

 

[seanjohn]

^^

Yeah, she lives like right next to me. I'm gonna try to set up a date, just wanted to know if these were tell-tale signs of interest.

Thanks

 

[Paintballguy]

Originally posted by seanjohn
^^

Yeah, she lives like right next to me. I'm gonna try to set up a date, just wanted to know if these were tell-tale signs of interest.

Thanks

She definately has some interest if she wants you to give her a massage. A girl just wont let some guy she either doesnt like or isnt comfortable with give her a massage.

 

[Dukester]

Originally posted by Paintballguy
She definately has some interest if she wants you to give her a massage. A girl just wont let some guy she either doesnt like or isnt comfortable with give her a massage.

true most the time. then again there are those girls that use guys for favors and that kinda sh!t

 

[DeathDealer]

Seems okay so far, go for a date with her.

 

[flexion_]

Yep - I'd go for a number.

 

[DJ_Dud]

Originally posted by Paintballguy
She definately has some interest if she wants you to give her a massage. A girl just wont let some guy she either doesnt like or isnt comfortable with give her a massage.

I know lots of girls that love massages from me and all of them have b/f's. But if you honestly feel that your going to get her, go for it, but if you dont get her, tough. Youll be okay without her, won't you??

 

[Maverick001]

Originally posted by seanjohn
Quick question from a newbie, all response greatly appreciated.

I need to know for certain whether this girl is interested. Having read some of the DJ bible and WMS, I've got a good idea, but just needed some more advice/assessment.

This girl I'm interested in, lives very close to me, so don't want to go for it unless I'm relatively certain she's interested.

- We were hanging out with a group of people. After most ppl left, just me and her, I lost a bet and she asked me to give her a massage.

- I slid my hands under the back of her shirt she didn't mind... also other kino that night. She then gave me a massage (her request).

Just random behavior or tell-tale signs she's really interested?

seanjohn,

This girl didn't have any problem being alone with you, asked you to give her a massage and then proceeded to give you one AFTER REQUESTING IT FROM YOU.

All indications point to interest in you. Now that you've gotten that validation...go for it.

By the way, welcome to the forum...

Cheers,
Mav