"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Some advice please...

2 months ago, I was at a friend's party. We're a group of about 8 guys who usually hang out.

After about 3 hours, one of my friend's friend, lets call him X, was drunk and aggressive. He went around the room, headbutting the others. Then he came to me, and gave me a headbutt. It was so hard, and I wasn't prepared. It came out of nowhere. I fell of the chair onto the edge of a table, hitting my head. He gave me a concussion. I puked all over my friends place, had memory loss and headache for over week. They had to call a relative to me because I was totally lost.

Since then, I've avoided partying with my friends because of X. I don't want to party with my friends, because X will be there, and I don't want to risk anything. (X is always aggresive when drunk)

But I do want to party with my other friends. What should I do? Should I tell them up front that I don't want to hang out with them if they hang out with X?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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No.

But I'm sure he wouldn't do it again. Look u can kill a drunk dude, just hit points. Nose/lip, neck, solar plexus, stomatch, balls, then onto left side. He'll drop, and might not wake up if u over do it. If u afraid of him he'll sence it and picks on you.

Last time I was knotted out I got hit by a con and fell down cold. I told him straight to his face and in front of his friends that his a liar and a fief after I got money stolen from me. I don't talk to him, don't afraid of hom, but when I'm around I don't restrict myself chatting with his friends.
 

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Drdeee said:
No.

But I'm sure he wouldn't do it again. Look u can kill a drunk dude, just hit points. Nose/lip, neck, solar plexus, stomatch, balls, then onto left side. He'll drop, and might not wake up if u over do it. If u afraid of him he'll sence it and picks on you.

Last time I was knotted out I got hit by a con and fell down cold. I told him straight to his face and in front of his friends that his a liar and a fief after I got money stolen from me. I don't talk to him, don't afraid of hom, but when I'm around I don't restrict myself chatting with his friends.

Maybe you're right, I can't avoid partying with my friends because I can be assaulted. I can be assaulted by anyone for no reason at a club.
 
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