"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Some advice please...

2 months ago, I was at a friend's party. We're a group of about 8 guys who usually hang out.

After about 3 hours, one of my friend's friend, lets call him X, was drunk and aggressive. He went around the room, headbutting the others. Then he came to me, and gave me a headbutt. It was so hard, and I wasn't prepared. It came out of nowhere. I fell of the chair onto the edge of a table, hitting my head. He gave me a concussion. I puked all over my friends place, had memory loss and headache for over week. They had to call a relative to me because I was totally lost.

Since then, I've avoided partying with my friends because of X. I don't want to party with my friends, because X will be there, and I don't want to risk anything. (X is always aggresive when drunk)

But I do want to party with my other friends. What should I do? Should I tell them up front that I don't want to hang out with them if they hang out with X?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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No.

But I'm sure he wouldn't do it again. Look u can kill a drunk dude, just hit points. Nose/lip, neck, solar plexus, stomatch, balls, then onto left side. He'll drop, and might not wake up if u over do it. If u afraid of him he'll sence it and picks on you.

Last time I was knotted out I got hit by a con and fell down cold. I told him straight to his face and in front of his friends that his a liar and a fief after I got money stolen from me. I don't talk to him, don't afraid of hom, but when I'm around I don't restrict myself chatting with his friends.
 

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Drdeee said:
No.

But I'm sure he wouldn't do it again. Look u can kill a drunk dude, just hit points. Nose/lip, neck, solar plexus, stomatch, balls, then onto left side. He'll drop, and might not wake up if u over do it. If u afraid of him he'll sence it and picks on you.

Last time I was knotted out I got hit by a con and fell down cold. I told him straight to his face and in front of his friends that his a liar and a fief after I got money stolen from me. I don't talk to him, don't afraid of hom, but when I'm around I don't restrict myself chatting with his friends.

Maybe you're right, I can't avoid partying with my friends because I can be assaulted. I can be assaulted by anyone for no reason at a club.
 
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