Some advice please...
2 months ago, I was at a friend's party. We're a group of about 8 guys who usually hang out.
After about 3 hours, one of my friend's friend, lets call him X, was drunk and aggressive. He went around the room, headbutting the others. Then he came to me, and gave me a headbutt. It was so hard, and I wasn't prepared. It came out of nowhere. I fell of the chair onto the edge of a table, hitting my head. He gave me a concussion. I puked all over my friends place, had memory loss and headache for over week. They had to call a relative to me because I was totally lost.
Since then, I've avoided partying with my friends because of X. I don't want to party with my friends, because X will be there, and I don't want to risk anything. (X is always aggresive when drunk)
But I do want to party with my other friends. What should I do? Should I tell them up front that I don't want to hang out with them if they hang out with X?
2 months ago, I was at a friend's party. We're a group of about 8 guys who usually hang out.
After about 3 hours, one of my friend's friend, lets call him X, was drunk and aggressive. He went around the room, headbutting the others. Then he came to me, and gave me a headbutt. It was so hard, and I wasn't prepared. It came out of nowhere. I fell of the chair onto the edge of a table, hitting my head. He gave me a concussion. I puked all over my friends place, had memory loss and headache for over week. They had to call a relative to me because I was totally lost.
Since then, I've avoided partying with my friends because of X. I don't want to party with my friends, because X will be there, and I don't want to risk anything. (X is always aggresive when drunk)
But I do want to party with my other friends. What should I do? Should I tell them up front that I don't want to hang out with them if they hang out with X?