"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Aspergers?

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Does the tips on this website work for those with Aspergers syndrome?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Yes... but only after you get a good handle on the Aspergers. It takes a tremendous amount of effort, self-awareness, and deep understanding of social/psychological dynamics ("theory of mind"). I recommend Roissy over this forum. I have aspergers and my seduction game didn't really begin to improve until I began reading Roissy, who provides unparalleled understanding and explanation of things.
 
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Absolutely not.

If you really have Asperger's and are not just a self-diagnosed sufferer I highly suggest you look into professional help and utilize those resources.

The kind of game advertized here can backfire easily and if you really have the off social wiring you will probably backfire.
 
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I was diagnosed with Asperger's Syndrome when I was 4.

I worked my hardest to stop being "retarded", and I even eventually got to the point where I re-took a test to see if I was still legally diagnosed with it, and I was removed of the label.

It literally just takes will. A lot of it.
Man, it's just a name... and even as my childhood psychiatrist told me, "Everyone is on the autism spectrum. Some people are just higher up on it."

I hope I could help. Really.
I suffered with this sh!t a lot when I was younger.

Bullying wasn't as broadly hated when I was little.
 
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