"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Aspergers?

Chillerman

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Does the tips on this website work for those with Aspergers syndrome?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Deep Dish

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Yes... but only after you get a good handle on the Aspergers. It takes a tremendous amount of effort, self-awareness, and deep understanding of social/psychological dynamics ("theory of mind"). I recommend Roissy over this forum. I have aspergers and my seduction game didn't really begin to improve until I began reading Roissy, who provides unparalleled understanding and explanation of things.
 

FairShake

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Absolutely not.

If you really have Asperger's and are not just a self-diagnosed sufferer I highly suggest you look into professional help and utilize those resources.

The kind of game advertized here can backfire easily and if you really have the off social wiring you will probably backfire.
 

Sneevox

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I was diagnosed with Asperger's Syndrome when I was 4.

I worked my hardest to stop being "retarded", and I even eventually got to the point where I re-took a test to see if I was still legally diagnosed with it, and I was removed of the label.

It literally just takes will. A lot of it.
Man, it's just a name... and even as my childhood psychiatrist told me, "Everyone is on the autism spectrum. Some people are just higher up on it."

I hope I could help. Really.
I suffered with this sh!t a lot when I was younger.

Bullying wasn't as broadly hated when I was little.
 
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