"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Asking vs. Being Asked

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Do any of you feel different when you ask out a girl compared to one that asks you out?

When I ask a girl out I feel like I am masterminding my plan. Figure out the date and what were going to do. Make sure I open the car door and subsequent doors. Im under stress to impress her. Good conversation, light touching, etc.

If a girl asks me out though I feel different. Im actually going out tonight with a girl that asked me. Its a different feeling. Almost of flattery. Like I dont have to try as hard to have her like me. Because, obviously she asked me out. Yeah, Im still planning dinner, etc. Make sure I impress her, but it feels like half the battle is already won.

In reality though, I should be under the same amount of stress. Its different and actually kinda nice to be asked out. Wish me luck!:D
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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It seems to work out better when I girl asks me out...and even better when she indirectly asks me (to get me to ask her out). Maybe it's just me.
 
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GigaloDJ, I agree it is a mans job but when a woman asks you out. When she seeks you out and more or less suggests you go out. It seems a lot easier on the date. It is as if you can act more like yourself instead of trying to impress.
 
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Originally posted by ARK
GigaloDJ, I agree it is a mans job but when a woman asks you out. When she seeks you out and more or less suggests you go out. It seems a lot easier on the date. It is as if you can act more like yourself instead of trying to impress.
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I agree. When a woman suggests a get together, it makes everything so much easier.
 
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