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Asking vs. Being Asked

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Do any of you feel different when you ask out a girl compared to one that asks you out?

When I ask a girl out I feel like I am masterminding my plan. Figure out the date and what were going to do. Make sure I open the car door and subsequent doors. Im under stress to impress her. Good conversation, light touching, etc.

If a girl asks me out though I feel different. Im actually going out tonight with a girl that asked me. Its a different feeling. Almost of flattery. Like I dont have to try as hard to have her like me. Because, obviously she asked me out. Yeah, Im still planning dinner, etc. Make sure I impress her, but it feels like half the battle is already won.

In reality though, I should be under the same amount of stress. Its different and actually kinda nice to be asked out. Wish me luck!:D
 

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It seems to work out better when I girl asks me out...and even better when she indirectly asks me (to get me to ask her out). Maybe it's just me.
 
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GigaloDJ, I agree it is a mans job but when a woman asks you out. When she seeks you out and more or less suggests you go out. It seems a lot easier on the date. It is as if you can act more like yourself instead of trying to impress.
 
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Originally posted by ARK
GigaloDJ, I agree it is a mans job but when a woman asks you out. When she seeks you out and more or less suggests you go out. It seems a lot easier on the date. It is as if you can act more like yourself instead of trying to impress.
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I agree. When a woman suggests a get together, it makes everything so much easier.
 
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