"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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asking to hang out

Slippery Sam

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now i have this girl that i know likes me, but shes pretty busy with dance. ill ask her to chill and she'll politely decline and say that she has dance, but she always waits till the ****ing last minute to tell me because she "doesn't know her schedule". ive told her how much that pissed me off and she said that she would change but she hasn't. she is also one of those girls that expects the guy to be perfect in his game and i like doing that but i just dont know how to ask her to chill at my house correctly. btw im grounded but my parents said i could have her over. what do i do?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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It's-Me

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She's a flake. Tell her to cut the bullsh1t and ask her to chill at your house. If she declines than don't talk to her anymore.
 

Slippery Sam

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yea i kno that she likes me, just by the way she acts when i am around but i just need to ask her to chill the right way. im just gonna do what it's me says, that seems like the best option.
thanks
 
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