"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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asking to hang out

Slippery Sam

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now i have this girl that i know likes me, but shes pretty busy with dance. ill ask her to chill and she'll politely decline and say that she has dance, but she always waits till the ****ing last minute to tell me because she "doesn't know her schedule". ive told her how much that pissed me off and she said that she would change but she hasn't. she is also one of those girls that expects the guy to be perfect in his game and i like doing that but i just dont know how to ask her to chill at my house correctly. btw im grounded but my parents said i could have her over. what do i do?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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It's-Me

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She's a flake. Tell her to cut the bullsh1t and ask her to chill at your house. If she declines than don't talk to her anymore.
 

Slippery Sam

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yea i kno that she likes me, just by the way she acts when i am around but i just need to ask her to chill the right way. im just gonna do what it's me says, that seems like the best option.
thanks
 
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