Happy_Camper
Don Juan
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Hi fellow djers, so far the past two girls that i was trying to be with all gave me the same excuses when i asked them to be exclusive with me. Both of them happen to say the same thing, "What do you like me for?" and after that they say I dont know you that well yet.
Is it because i have too little rapport so far? The girls seem to be talking much but i believe i dont think ive been saying much things about myself or opening up yet. I guess being mysterious or aloof has affected it.
What happens when this happens? Should you continue to talk to them more or move to next girl?
We've been holding hands, hugging and i have my arm around her sometimes and she doesnt flinch away though.
I went out with her twice outside of school, we see each other 4 days a week at school. And talked on the phone about 3x. We have great convos over the phone (nothing like deep convos more like making fun of each other) and we sit very close to each during school. I feel her hand and kino her all the time. She doesnt do that much kino in return though however, but just a bit.
But the other part of me is saying if a girl really likes you, wouldnt see not mind you asked that and being more exclusive can mean she can find out about you more during the process? Cause i think some guys think like this.
I believe what i did because its better to know early than to fall into the friend trap or stalling too long. Its better to know early because if you invest too many of your emotions then im afraid i wont get rid of her in my mind. I dont know if you guys agree on that though.
Im thinking back the old saying in this forum open up your choices and dont put all your eggs in one basket, so what she said to me would place everything in her hands. I mean she decided to go that route and in the future when she sees me happy and with someone else itll make her regret that and may try to attempt to take me back.
Any suggestions and tips would be greatly appreciated. Thanks a lot guys.
Is it because i have too little rapport so far? The girls seem to be talking much but i believe i dont think ive been saying much things about myself or opening up yet. I guess being mysterious or aloof has affected it.
What happens when this happens? Should you continue to talk to them more or move to next girl?
We've been holding hands, hugging and i have my arm around her sometimes and she doesnt flinch away though.
I went out with her twice outside of school, we see each other 4 days a week at school. And talked on the phone about 3x. We have great convos over the phone (nothing like deep convos more like making fun of each other) and we sit very close to each during school. I feel her hand and kino her all the time. She doesnt do that much kino in return though however, but just a bit.
But the other part of me is saying if a girl really likes you, wouldnt see not mind you asked that and being more exclusive can mean she can find out about you more during the process? Cause i think some guys think like this.
I believe what i did because its better to know early than to fall into the friend trap or stalling too long. Its better to know early because if you invest too many of your emotions then im afraid i wont get rid of her in my mind. I dont know if you guys agree on that though.
Im thinking back the old saying in this forum open up your choices and dont put all your eggs in one basket, so what she said to me would place everything in her hands. I mean she decided to go that route and in the future when she sees me happy and with someone else itll make her regret that and may try to attempt to take me back.
Any suggestions and tips would be greatly appreciated. Thanks a lot guys.
