"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Asking This Girl To Come To A Cinco De Mayo Party..??

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So theres this girl im my class, we have interest in each other and went out last thursday. I dont want to get into to much detail about how things are between us. Its not serious yet, but im hoping that things will get more serious. I know that i need to use more kino (even though i have and will continue to)
-Would it be a good idea to ask her to come to a cinco de mayo BBQ that me and friends are having.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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gomariners51

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yeh, probley a dumb questions to even ask cause i of course should ask her to come. She will probley want to bring her roommates but thats all good, cause all our friends can get to know eachother.
 

Young Anikan

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young anikan answer's a stupid question.

Ofcourse you should ask her to come.Sounds like you was bored and had nothing better to ask lolz,but yea invite her oh and me too,if its Nyc lolz.
 
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