"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Asking This Girl To Come To A Cinco De Mayo Party..??

gomariners51

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So theres this girl im my class, we have interest in each other and went out last thursday. I dont want to get into to much detail about how things are between us. Its not serious yet, but im hoping that things will get more serious. I know that i need to use more kino (even though i have and will continue to)
-Would it be a good idea to ask her to come to a cinco de mayo BBQ that me and friends are having.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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gomariners51

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yeh, probley a dumb questions to even ask cause i of course should ask her to come. She will probley want to bring her roommates but thats all good, cause all our friends can get to know eachother.
 

Young Anikan

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young anikan answer's a stupid question.

Ofcourse you should ask her to come.Sounds like you was bored and had nothing better to ask lolz,but yea invite her oh and me too,if its Nyc lolz.
 
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