"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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asking the ***** out

DogFashionDisco

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ok, so there's this chick I've know for like a week (I've seen her before hella times, but I just started talking to her a week ago or so) lol. I can really tell she's interested in me and vice versa. She's kind of the shy type. I hardly get to talk to her however at school (I'll pass by her in the hall and we'll have small talk), but more online. So anyways, there's this dance thing on friday, and I'm thinking about asking her out at it.

How should I go about doing this?
 

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I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

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The Real Ice Man

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I can just see how this one goes down right now...

YOU: "Go to the dance with me, b1tch."
HER: "Why are you referring to me as a *****? You don't even know me..."

Seriously though...

Dancing is gay (at least with high school functions). Just ask her out and take her somewhere where you can have fun alone.
 

Phat

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Its not that hard.

You: so are you going to the dance?
Her: yeah
You:with who?
Her:noone
You:eek:hh . You want to go with me?
 

rowing_mike

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Walk up to her "hey girl, you wanna come to the dance with me?".
"Oh, but what if she says no?" Shes not going to think badly of you for asking, if she says no, she was going to anyway. You dont lose by letting it pass by, and it sounds like youve got a good chance of getting her anyway.
 

Hot Ice

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Just ask her plain and simple.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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