"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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asking the ***** out

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DogFashionDisco

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ok, so there's this chick I've know for like a week (I've seen her before hella times, but I just started talking to her a week ago or so) lol. I can really tell she's interested in me and vice versa. She's kind of the shy type. I hardly get to talk to her however at school (I'll pass by her in the hall and we'll have small talk), but more online. So anyways, there's this dance thing on friday, and I'm thinking about asking her out at it.

How should I go about doing this?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I can just see how this one goes down right now...

YOU: "Go to the dance with me, b1tch."
HER: "Why are you referring to me as a *****? You don't even know me..."

Seriously though...

Dancing is gay (at least with high school functions). Just ask her out and take her somewhere where you can have fun alone.
 
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Its not that hard.

You: so are you going to the dance?
Her: yeah
You:with who?
Her:noone
You:eek:hh . You want to go with me?
 
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Walk up to her "hey girl, you wanna come to the dance with me?".
"Oh, but what if she says no?" Shes not going to think badly of you for asking, if she says no, she was going to anyway. You dont lose by letting it pass by, and it sounds like youve got a good chance of getting her anyway.
 
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Hot Ice

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Just ask her plain and simple.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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