"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Asking second date

VAboi

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Hey guys, had a date. Kissed her during the date and again when I walked her to her car.

She texted me the next day but only texted a ' :p '
I responded by telling her I was getting ready for a bday party and said what's up?

No response.

She usually takes a while to reply and mentioned that to me before.

Thought it was weird though she initiated and didn't reply. Usually girls will text and say they had a good time. She is kind of awkward though, and admitted on the date that she is awkward lol.

How should I suggest the second date?
I'm thinking of texting her on Monday since the date was on Thursday. 1 date per week.

Should I banter with her first? I'm thinking of just saying 'I had a good time with you, when are you free to get together this week?'

Or should I leave the whole I had a good time thing out
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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daddymonsterpoodle

Master Don Juan
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That was fun, not TOO awkward :). I am going to do (insert fun activity) on day (insert day). Come along.
 
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