"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Asking second date

VAboi

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Hey guys, had a date. Kissed her during the date and again when I walked her to her car.

She texted me the next day but only texted a ' :p '
I responded by telling her I was getting ready for a bday party and said what's up?

No response.

She usually takes a while to reply and mentioned that to me before.

Thought it was weird though she initiated and didn't reply. Usually girls will text and say they had a good time. She is kind of awkward though, and admitted on the date that she is awkward lol.

How should I suggest the second date?
I'm thinking of texting her on Monday since the date was on Thursday. 1 date per week.

Should I banter with her first? I'm thinking of just saying 'I had a good time with you, when are you free to get together this week?'

Or should I leave the whole I had a good time thing out
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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daddymonsterpoodle

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That was fun, not TOO awkward :). I am going to do (insert fun activity) on day (insert day). Come along.
 
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