"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Asking second date

VAboi

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Hey guys, had a date. Kissed her during the date and again when I walked her to her car.

She texted me the next day but only texted a ' :p '
I responded by telling her I was getting ready for a bday party and said what's up?

No response.

She usually takes a while to reply and mentioned that to me before.

Thought it was weird though she initiated and didn't reply. Usually girls will text and say they had a good time. She is kind of awkward though, and admitted on the date that she is awkward lol.

How should I suggest the second date?
I'm thinking of texting her on Monday since the date was on Thursday. 1 date per week.

Should I banter with her first? I'm thinking of just saying 'I had a good time with you, when are you free to get together this week?'

Or should I leave the whole I had a good time thing out
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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daddymonsterpoodle

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That was fun, not TOO awkward :). I am going to do (insert fun activity) on day (insert day). Come along.
 
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