"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Asking Questions

sony007

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Hey guys,

When I am talking to some1 that I have met recently, I don't like asking questions. Doesn't mean I dont wanna know abt them, but I wont want to give them the idea that I am digging for info.
I can ask questions as the conversation unfolds, but not at the starting of conversations.

Having said that, that sometimes make me hard to start the conversation.

What do gals think abt when somebody is asking them series of questions?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Well, no it is not cool to ask a series of questions. they have to flow with the conversation. And in between questions and her answers, interject with something interesting about yourself that relates to the topic.
 

sony007

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Originally posted by SuperGigaloDJ
Remember to ask open ended questions. ALways through in some light sexual innuendo and be C&F.

example :confused:
 
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