"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Asking Questions

sony007

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Hey guys,

When I am talking to some1 that I have met recently, I don't like asking questions. Doesn't mean I dont wanna know abt them, but I wont want to give them the idea that I am digging for info.
I can ask questions as the conversation unfolds, but not at the starting of conversations.

Having said that, that sometimes make me hard to start the conversation.

What do gals think abt when somebody is asking them series of questions?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Well, no it is not cool to ask a series of questions. they have to flow with the conversation. And in between questions and her answers, interject with something interesting about yourself that relates to the topic.
 

sony007

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Originally posted by SuperGigaloDJ
Remember to ask open ended questions. ALways through in some light sexual innuendo and be C&F.

example :confused:
 
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