we all eat food
Senior Don Juan
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like when i ask out a girl to hang out, is it like a date or just to chill or something
IM SO CONFUSED
IM SO CONFUSED
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
asking out girls
- Thread starter we all eat food
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Joe The Homophobe
Master Don Juan
read the dj bible, don't post trash like this again
*pages diablo*
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redbullfbu
Don Juan
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u make the stupidest ****ing threads
KaminoSS
Don Juan
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i thaught the mods would delete threads like this.....
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Senior Don Juan
yeah this thread is gonna get deleted..
but before that happens let me tell you..
If you aska girl out on a date
and shes like are you taking me on a date?
you say "i jus wanna chill together, i know you wanna date me but maybe we can do that later on
"
or w/e if the girl is hesitant that its a date, say its not one
but before that happens let me tell you..
If you aska girl out on a date
and shes like are you taking me on a date?
you say "i jus wanna chill together, i know you wanna date me but maybe we can do that later on
"or w/e if the girl is hesitant that its a date, say its not one