“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Asking out a girl who likes someone else?

teddy

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Do you play this any differently or have a different mindset?

Planning on asking out a soon to be former coworker in a couple weeks; however, I know she has a thing for one of my colleagues. Was gonna ask her for drinks or something similar.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Don't dwell on that because it will wreck your chances for sure and manifest in neediness and insecurity. Assume the best and judge her solely on her actions.
 

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Sup teddy :)

teddy said:
she has a thing for one of my colleagues.
**** that. You are going to make this guy look like a chump. GO FOR IT. Post back her reaction and actions afterwards.
 

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DragonBlood said:
Sup teddy :)



**** that. You are going to make this guy look like a chump. GO FOR IT. Post back her reaction and actions afterwards.
I have to wait a couple weeks because I don't think it'd be a good idea to ask her until we are officially former co-workers. Made sense initially, though I feel kind of pissed right now this has dragged out for a bit.
 
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