"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Asking out a coworker

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What is your guys' view on dating coworkers? Seems like it'd make for an odd work environment around them if they decline or things go south.

I'm probably not going to be at the job for too long so the awkwardness most likely won't matter if she shoots me down.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Don't do it man...As my mum always says do not **** where you eat.... which basically means that don't create a mess in the environment where you spend a lot of time.

Think about it...


But if you are not going to be at the job for too long....might as well go for it...


IS SHE REALLY WORTH IT THOUGH???
 
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Wait til you leave your job

Then when you ask her out, explain in less than five seconds why you waited (or don't explain at all):

"Hey, let's grab lunch some time. I meant to ask you while I was still at the office, but didn't for obvious reasons."

Or something like that. I second the "It's a trap!" mentality, working with a lot of hot Russian/Ukrainian/Romanian chicks in my building.

At least yours isn't married, and constantly hitting on you.

Right... I just complained about women hitting on me in the office. Reverse sexual harassment up in this b*tch.
 
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