"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Asking out a coworker

itishe

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What is your guys' view on dating coworkers? Seems like it'd make for an odd work environment around them if they decline or things go south.

I'm probably not going to be at the job for too long so the awkwardness most likely won't matter if she shoots me down.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Imusculine

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Don't do it man...As my mum always says do not **** where you eat.... which basically means that don't create a mess in the environment where you spend a lot of time.

Think about it...


But if you are not going to be at the job for too long....might as well go for it...


IS SHE REALLY WORTH IT THOUGH???
 

loveshogun

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Wait til you leave your job

Then when you ask her out, explain in less than five seconds why you waited (or don't explain at all):

"Hey, let's grab lunch some time. I meant to ask you while I was still at the office, but didn't for obvious reasons."

Or something like that. I second the "It's a trap!" mentality, working with a lot of hot Russian/Ukrainian/Romanian chicks in my building.

At least yours isn't married, and constantly hitting on you.

Right... I just complained about women hitting on me in the office. Reverse sexual harassment up in this b*tch.
 
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