"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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asking out 2 or more girls at the same time?

whosthat

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u know how alot of times theres 2 hot friends or sisters together and you have to pick one to talk to, and you hope shes the one thats single have any yall ever tried just asking the both of them whether there single, or does it just talk all the spontanisity out of the approach,
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Black Dog

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Man I tried entering that in Google Translate and it froze my comp
 

Jeffst1980

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"Wow, you girls are both pretty cute..I'm not sure who I like better. Are you both single?"
 

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Jeffst1980 said:
"Wow, you girls are both pretty cute..I'm not sure who I like better. Are you both single?"
Nice.... I'd stay away from asking girls out within the same social circle though. That's just too much trouble for me.
 

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it seems it could work, but girls liike specialness and if your saying you like her friends look too i think alot of chicks would just walk on and chucklle, or its 50/50 pik one and hope shes single, and i always pik the hotter and of course shes taken
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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