"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Asking in non-needy way?

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My girl invited me to join her trip to the sea with her working friends.

I asked her, can outside people like me join their trip?

She said, they can.

But, few days later, she then told me that maybe I can't join the trip

as there will be some executives of her working company join the trip.

Thus, outside people like me can't join the trip.

Actually, I want to join the trip, not because of her, but because

her friends are really cute.

My question is " How do I ask her whether I can still join the trip without

being looked needy or desperate?"

Thank you for every suggestion.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Never ask for dates. Offer dates. Say "if you play your cards right you might convince me to join you on your trip".
 
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bigneil said:
Never ask for dates. Offer dates. Say "if you play your cards right you might convince me to join you on your trip".
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It's not really that I ask her for dates. I just wanna ask her

if I can still join the trip, but How? The main reason is I wanna meet her friends which are cute. Dating with her is like an extra bonus.

So, what's your suggestion, sir?
 
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