asking if she has a bf a good idea?

[bbestar]

What im goin to do is go up to random ladies such as cashiers or ladies sitting down.

Start some fluf talk then once i gain little rapport with the girl.. I ask her if she has a bf...

If yes...
Well, Good cause im not looking for a serious relationship right now... We can be good friends, it would be a good idea if you wrote your number down so we could hang out sometime

If not then..

Dissapoint her by saying the same thing that you are sorry but im not looking for a serious relationship right now.. then ask her are you looking for a serious relationship.. then close for number.

Is this a good idea? Setting up the right vibe? or should I come up with something different..
thanks all..

ps, the not serious relationship line needs to be credited to someone on the forum when i was reading.. thanks anyway

 

[Morphiex]

dont mention a rlt when u ask her for the first time... Sheesh ....
u can say it if she say she has a boyfriend, but say it in a funny way to make her laugh , then when she laughes, say what,? im seriuos in a funny way... good way to start the convo..... other then that u dont mention that u dont want a seriuos rlt until u have been out for 3 dates or if u have had sex two times and she kinda gets klingy....

 

[Cheat_LBJ]

It has been my experience that, 9 times out of 10, if a woman has a boyfriend she is serious about, she will make it known within the first 15-20 minutes of a conversation.

They work it in to their speech almost unconciously, relating something you say to her boyfriend, or talking about a time she did something with her boyfriend, etc.

 

[Snatchmaster]

This is like approaching and asking if they are single.

What a waste of time. They will let you know. The question does little to move the conversation forward in a way that portrays you as an interesting person she should know.

And if you ask and the girl says she is single, you plan to tell her your not interested anyway, except as a casual f*ck. Ok, if all you want is totally insane hookers who'll blow you and every other guy with nerve enough to ask.

Many girls will lose interest in you at that time. The point of the number is to get a date. The first few times you see and talk to her she will be evaluating you. Focus on making a good impression.

What you suggest doing does not make you come across as engaging or entertaining. You come across as a game player, implying a certain lack of maturity.

Definitely practice your rapport. When you ask for the number she will let you know if she's not available.

 

[MacDiddy]

Bbestar: No... its not a good idea.... Yes you should come up with something different!!!

Your approach is so clinical and most decent chick will be thrown so of gaurd that they will answer yes almost always...