"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Asking her

Adi

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Alright, so there's this girl who's in my class. We never really talked much until December, when because of a common friend, we were on Skype together, and the common friend left. We started talking, and I felt like we clicked. We used to skype for hours every weekend. She kinda showed signs of liking me (slight flirting, a lot of physical contact, other body language stuff), and I did too. The thing is she still likes her ex. I've decided to yolo it all the way and ask her out tonight, but I don't really know how to. I've only ever asked out one girl in my life, and was rejected :/

It's not that I'm unconfident, its just that I don't know how to convey my feelings in the right words. I'm not like in love with her or have really deep feelings for her, I just like her and want to be something more than friends but would be okay with being friends. How exactly do I go about it?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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defensiveend96

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Ask her out phaggot
Stop over thinking
You a man (as far as I know) and she's a woman that's how it works
Ask her for coffee or go mini golfing or phuck her in the backalley behind Wal mart idgaf just ask brah
Also don't talk to her on Skype for hours
Scarcity is your friend grasshopper
 

amazingswayze

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It's not a surprise that the first time you ever asked a girl out you were rejected. Same thing happened to me. What that means is... YOU NEED TO PRACTICE MORE.. This girl means nothing to you. Get to work on others..
 
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