"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Asking her

Adi

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Alright, so there's this girl who's in my class. We never really talked much until December, when because of a common friend, we were on Skype together, and the common friend left. We started talking, and I felt like we clicked. We used to skype for hours every weekend. She kinda showed signs of liking me (slight flirting, a lot of physical contact, other body language stuff), and I did too. The thing is she still likes her ex. I've decided to yolo it all the way and ask her out tonight, but I don't really know how to. I've only ever asked out one girl in my life, and was rejected :/

It's not that I'm unconfident, its just that I don't know how to convey my feelings in the right words. I'm not like in love with her or have really deep feelings for her, I just like her and want to be something more than friends but would be okay with being friends. How exactly do I go about it?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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defensiveend96

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Ask her out phaggot
Stop over thinking
You a man (as far as I know) and she's a woman that's how it works
Ask her for coffee or go mini golfing or phuck her in the backalley behind Wal mart idgaf just ask brah
Also don't talk to her on Skype for hours
Scarcity is your friend grasshopper
 

amazingswayze

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It's not a surprise that the first time you ever asked a girl out you were rejected. Same thing happened to me. What that means is... YOU NEED TO PRACTICE MORE.. This girl means nothing to you. Get to work on others..
 
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