"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Asking her

Adi

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Alright, so there's this girl who's in my class. We never really talked much until December, when because of a common friend, we were on Skype together, and the common friend left. We started talking, and I felt like we clicked. We used to skype for hours every weekend. She kinda showed signs of liking me (slight flirting, a lot of physical contact, other body language stuff), and I did too. The thing is she still likes her ex. I've decided to yolo it all the way and ask her out tonight, but I don't really know how to. I've only ever asked out one girl in my life, and was rejected :/

It's not that I'm unconfident, its just that I don't know how to convey my feelings in the right words. I'm not like in love with her or have really deep feelings for her, I just like her and want to be something more than friends but would be okay with being friends. How exactly do I go about it?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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defensiveend96

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Ask her out phaggot
Stop over thinking
You a man (as far as I know) and she's a woman that's how it works
Ask her for coffee or go mini golfing or phuck her in the backalley behind Wal mart idgaf just ask brah
Also don't talk to her on Skype for hours
Scarcity is your friend grasshopper
 

amazingswayze

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It's not a surprise that the first time you ever asked a girl out you were rejected. Same thing happened to me. What that means is... YOU NEED TO PRACTICE MORE.. This girl means nothing to you. Get to work on others..
 
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