"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Asking Her to Homecoming

PocketGnome

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So I plan to do it tomorrow. It's in a week and a day from tomorrow, and she doesn't have a date yet.

How should I open the conversation? Should I just do it like a normal conversation? Then sorta use a phone # closer, but obviously asking her to the dance instead... or should I just jump to the chase?



What are some creative ways of asking her? Just for some ideas anyway....

thanks guys.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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mpimpin

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Theres no right or wrong way just do w/e you feel CONFIDENT doing and can pull off. Good luck man!!
 

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ask her if shes been asked yet.. when she says no..
say well then will you go with me.. hav a smile on your face when you say it
then get her number and hang out with her this weekend
 

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This is really weird stuff.

We talked from class, as she left to go down the hallway she had to, I grabbed her hand, and she spun around with a smile on her face. I said...

"I was thinking about going to homecoming, and if you aren't going with anyone.... would you wanna go with me?"


She paused for a minute, looked at me, and said.... "Ummm.... Nah"

So I said... "Alrighty, maybe I'll see you there."
She smiled and said.. "Maybe!" And turned around and left.

I know for a fact she doesn't have a date, and I don't know what I did but anyway, that's not the weird stuff. I just took the trash out, and the girl I asked older sister is always over at my neighbors house, and sometimes the girl I asked is as well. I purposely walked right by both of them, and I said hi to the girl I asked. She said hey. As I was walking away, I heard them talking, and then once I got to the trash, they drove by me, and honked the horn, again waving. They go around the block, and as I walk in, I hear them honk the horn once more. They parked again, then they just left. I'm seriously confused at the moment. I smiled and waved both times, and I just came inside.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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river105

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GAMES!!!

Seriously, I wouldnt play them. Ask another girl to homecoming and make the one you originally asked wish she wouldve said yes. But keep flirting with her, so she thinks you still like her.
 

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need grindin help

wen ur grinding and u get an erection do u lean in or bak or wat i need some advice
 

PocketGnome

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Should I then continue conversation next time I see her, or even on AIM? I don't want to come across like a crazed hormonal teen and give her the impression that all I was after was some sex, (honestly, at the moment, that wasn't the goal, that was something down the road) so what exactly should I do?

Continue the hi's and not bring up H/C at all? Still use kino, and still show some interest?


And, I have no idea who to ask now....

Musicman10, GTFO of my thread.
 

GaryUranga

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ok, shes wasting your time and if she dared to say "no" then youd have lil time to get another date, ask her about it be like "hey, about that maybe, is it yes or no? I need to know so I can get another date"

Sounds hash but, shes playing a stupid game and you should be getting stepped over :p
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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eminence

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you dont, she's not interested...next her.
 
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