"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Asking Her to Homecoming

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PocketGnome

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So I plan to do it tomorrow. It's in a week and a day from tomorrow, and she doesn't have a date yet.

How should I open the conversation? Should I just do it like a normal conversation? Then sorta use a phone # closer, but obviously asking her to the dance instead... or should I just jump to the chase?



What are some creative ways of asking her? Just for some ideas anyway....

thanks guys.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Theres no right or wrong way just do w/e you feel CONFIDENT doing and can pull off. Good luck man!!
 
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ask her if shes been asked yet.. when she says no..
say well then will you go with me.. hav a smile on your face when you say it
then get her number and hang out with her this weekend
 
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This is really weird stuff.

We talked from class, as she left to go down the hallway she had to, I grabbed her hand, and she spun around with a smile on her face. I said...

"I was thinking about going to homecoming, and if you aren't going with anyone.... would you wanna go with me?"


She paused for a minute, looked at me, and said.... "Ummm.... Nah"

So I said... "Alrighty, maybe I'll see you there."
She smiled and said.. "Maybe!" And turned around and left.

I know for a fact she doesn't have a date, and I don't know what I did but anyway, that's not the weird stuff. I just took the trash out, and the girl I asked older sister is always over at my neighbors house, and sometimes the girl I asked is as well. I purposely walked right by both of them, and I said hi to the girl I asked. She said hey. As I was walking away, I heard them talking, and then once I got to the trash, they drove by me, and honked the horn, again waving. They go around the block, and as I walk in, I hear them honk the horn once more. They parked again, then they just left. I'm seriously confused at the moment. I smiled and waved both times, and I just came inside.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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GAMES!!!

Seriously, I wouldnt play them. Ask another girl to homecoming and make the one you originally asked wish she wouldve said yes. But keep flirting with her, so she thinks you still like her.
 
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need grindin help

wen ur grinding and u get an erection do u lean in or bak or wat i need some advice
 
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Should I then continue conversation next time I see her, or even on AIM? I don't want to come across like a crazed hormonal teen and give her the impression that all I was after was some sex, (honestly, at the moment, that wasn't the goal, that was something down the road) so what exactly should I do?

Continue the hi's and not bring up H/C at all? Still use kino, and still show some interest?


And, I have no idea who to ask now....

Musicman10, GTFO of my thread.
 
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ok, shes wasting your time and if she dared to say "no" then youd have lil time to get another date, ask her about it be like "hey, about that maybe, is it yes or no? I need to know so I can get another date"

Sounds hash but, shes playing a stupid game and you should be getting stepped over :p
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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you dont, she's not interested...next her.
 
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