"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Asking Her to Homecoming

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PocketGnome

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So I plan to do it tomorrow. It's in a week and a day from tomorrow, and she doesn't have a date yet.

How should I open the conversation? Should I just do it like a normal conversation? Then sorta use a phone # closer, but obviously asking her to the dance instead... or should I just jump to the chase?



What are some creative ways of asking her? Just for some ideas anyway....

thanks guys.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Theres no right or wrong way just do w/e you feel CONFIDENT doing and can pull off. Good luck man!!
 
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ask her if shes been asked yet.. when she says no..
say well then will you go with me.. hav a smile on your face when you say it
then get her number and hang out with her this weekend
 
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This is really weird stuff.

We talked from class, as she left to go down the hallway she had to, I grabbed her hand, and she spun around with a smile on her face. I said...

"I was thinking about going to homecoming, and if you aren't going with anyone.... would you wanna go with me?"


She paused for a minute, looked at me, and said.... "Ummm.... Nah"

So I said... "Alrighty, maybe I'll see you there."
She smiled and said.. "Maybe!" And turned around and left.

I know for a fact she doesn't have a date, and I don't know what I did but anyway, that's not the weird stuff. I just took the trash out, and the girl I asked older sister is always over at my neighbors house, and sometimes the girl I asked is as well. I purposely walked right by both of them, and I said hi to the girl I asked. She said hey. As I was walking away, I heard them talking, and then once I got to the trash, they drove by me, and honked the horn, again waving. They go around the block, and as I walk in, I hear them honk the horn once more. They parked again, then they just left. I'm seriously confused at the moment. I smiled and waved both times, and I just came inside.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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GAMES!!!

Seriously, I wouldnt play them. Ask another girl to homecoming and make the one you originally asked wish she wouldve said yes. But keep flirting with her, so she thinks you still like her.
 
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need grindin help

wen ur grinding and u get an erection do u lean in or bak or wat i need some advice
 
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Should I then continue conversation next time I see her, or even on AIM? I don't want to come across like a crazed hormonal teen and give her the impression that all I was after was some sex, (honestly, at the moment, that wasn't the goal, that was something down the road) so what exactly should I do?

Continue the hi's and not bring up H/C at all? Still use kino, and still show some interest?


And, I have no idea who to ask now....

Musicman10, GTFO of my thread.
 
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ok, shes wasting your time and if she dared to say "no" then youd have lil time to get another date, ask her about it be like "hey, about that maybe, is it yes or no? I need to know so I can get another date"

Sounds hash but, shes playing a stupid game and you should be getting stepped over :p
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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you dont, she's not interested...next her.
 
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